The new aggressive me

Heather sent me a long ass dear john letter telling me how I wasn't her type and that I wasn't aggressive enough with her and that she is looking for a guy who is more aggressive so I figured I would try and be objective about the whole thing and really listen to the feedback that she gave me and I decided I would try and be more aggressive the next time I went out on a date with someone. There were like 8 different girls I was talking to on MSN and these girls were all girls that I was trying to get to go out on a date with me so I messaged each one and was really aggressive about seeing them and asking them all kinds of personal questions basically I did a 180 degree turn on my attitude before. I totally turned off four of the girls and they all deleted me from their MSN and one girl even called me an asshole lol. I know from these responses that I am not being too passive anymore, that is for sure. The four girls that didn't get turned off seem to like the new aggressive me. I went out on two dates after that with two different girls. The first date went horribly. The girl didn't really look anything like her pictures online and I was like WTF.

There is actually a funny story behind that date so let me tell that story first. I told her to meet me at this coffee shop called Crooked Tree Coffeehouse. The place is really cool and I want to go back there again, just this time with another girl. So I tell this chick to meet me there at 4:30pm for some coffee. She finally rolls in around 10 to 5pm and didn't even apologize for being late. The other thing is that she had a hairy upper lip and I was like wtf nooo that is my number one turn off. I was pissed off at her because not only was she late without apologizing but she wasn't the same girl in the pics I don't think and she was hairy. She asked me if I wanted another coffee because I had already drank the first one I ordered so I was like ok sure I will have another coffee then when she went and stood in line, I pretended to go to the washroom and then just ducked it out of there and literally ran to my car and took off lol. I got a few angry messages from her the next day but I just deleted them. I am glad I never gave her my phone number or anything. The only thing she had was my email address lol.

The other date I went on went much better lol. Her name is Carol which is a name I am not a big fan of. You know how sometimes you hear a girl's name and then you are like eww? Well that is what happened but the difference is that she is really hot. Hot girls get a free pass if they have an unattractive name. I told her to meet me at this other cool coffee shop I know here in Dallas called Opening Bell Coffee Inc. The place is usually full of stock market guys and shit but when we went the place was kind of dead. I met her there around 4pm on a Wed night. She was very attractive and we sat and talked for a few hours about everything under the sun. I was having a very hard time gauging her interest. I was being aggressive and she didn't seem to mind it, but she was kind of shy and she didn't ask me THAT many questions but at the same time she wasn't a dead fish personality either. I think maybe she is just a submissive girl that likes to be dominated which is fine by me and seems to be kind of common. After coffee she said she had to go visit her parents for dinner so she couldn't hang out any longer. I just grabbed her and pulled her close and kissed her in a very aggressive manner and she went with it. I have been chatting with her a bit since then and I am definitely going to be going out with her again soon.